Today in the human genetic counseling ...

[Amina24]

Hi,

Today we have the appointment at last put behind us.
I had all my, and the findings of our children, and was taken there with my treasure.
Only once they had totally confused (confused So for us, because not related to us) and talked at length about any DNA errors and all trisomies in general, and so on cell structure, cell division
Then she wanted to know whether it was our first joint ss, I said no and she asked what was the last time in 2008, I told her then said that it was a missed abortion, so that the heart has stopped just beat it was found as I was for the U.S. and NFM was there, the doctor then the NF measured and was normal, he then said that as a slight accumulation of water under the skin was in the abdominal area, but not sure, we got smaller then genetically analyzed and was unremarkable.
Well, at least she has then asked the nurse to request findings of the past.

Then it was about the last pregnancy.
It was assumed that we have made the diagnosis in early November after a break and asked if I had a diagnosis of AS, and was a bit put out the concept as I have explained that we have waited and then no further investigation would , and I've explained to her what he looked like (palate-jaw column) that had been so recorded anywhere, except that he had trisomy 18 and the other organic defects.
Then they took us each create a family tree and was quite impressed by the size of our families.

Then they said that I indeed "very young bin" and therefore an exception, be my findings (clotting, hormones, DNA ect has durchgeschaut), placed firmly that with me everything is in order, and meant that it was a random error, although, but we now have a recurrence risk and said several times that one must be very careful and should make an investigation of amniotic fluid, in the next ss.
This has brought me out of the total concept, I had to fight my tears, and I was so angry at the same time, because doctors often chatter going on it just like that without knowing what they can do it. Actually, I had to be quieted in the first place because of me something, and to the DNA of my husband prüfen leave.
He saw that I had tears in his eyes, and was irritated because we have said so far four doctors that no recurrence risk was given, since it was a free trisomy. He then asked how Wiederholunsrisiko and she said then, an increased recurrence risk of 0.5 to 1 percent .....

It then decreased blood for my husband and said we get the result in two weeks.

We are both stressed out from practice, relieved that we have it behind us. I could no longer pull together and get the tears running left free, the kind and wise as she has talked about our son, and this panic, that was really not a nice feeling.
She was not unfriendly or anything, but it just was not particularly encouraging, much less reassuring.
The secret of what I feared, that it has confirmed to me more or less in a panicky way.

Then my husband took me in the arm, and said that I should not so take it to heart, and that we hinbekommen that right, even when we next time should go through the same thing. He said that it is our children and that is ok as it is, and that we will share with God's assistance is still a pile of healthy children in the world.

Well, now I sit here at work and everything I zurechtgelegt me in recent days, first time for me, for us to pause, have fun, is upset ....
I want to take it easy behind me, a "successful" ss. Earlier, I said to him, half for fun, we can but just do an artificial insemination with four children and then never use again ss!

[SaMi08]

Oh, Amina press, let you.
It ran really stupid. However, well, I've made similar experiences. I know for example that we discussed at the first appointment in the clinic, before pregnancy, with Philip, with the nice doctor who looked after us then. And she has never heard of "their children" or something spoken only of the "miscarriage" or "pregnancy". This has hurt me incredibly.
And the panic is so typical! Since I could upset me. With us is surely also the risk of further miscarriage increased, but hello! What does that say already?? I mean, I was far more in the small area of what I know, maybe 5% risk. They say the risk of a late FG will always decrease with advancing pregnancy. And what use it? If I belong to halt these 5%, then my child dies. So I do not want to know the risk.
It can also go well.

Let yourself do not bring out the concept. If you can come out now in the panic, no one is helped. Give you a little bit of time talking to sink and then let you decide for your feelings! As your husband says: There are your children, it is your history.

[Amina24]

Hi,

yes you are right, yesterday I was simply the injured and brought up many feelings.

Just as there can be any, really any, can make a woman have to Fg, it also hit me again, it is not that that is an account somewhere where it is, the ne already had one, why not get the more. Next time it might be another cause, but still a fg, who knows?
Yes, it certainly can also go well .... we'll see.

But one reason I will not make FWU.
Doctors .....

[SaMi08]

But one reason I will not make FWU.
Doctors .....

you say it!!

[sandrui]

Amina Oh, that's not so beautiful that it largely seems to have been rather discouraging.
Make himself so low Kopp, what they do with their statements, can I have the Kiwubehandlung even in memory. See as you look at a case, everything from the theoretical side, not the people behind it and the fate!

Take it you do not so much to heart and is waiting the results from your husband!

Very best wishes

Sandra

[Naya]

Hi Amina,

'm here just stumbled on your thread. So now you have had the appointment. I am very sorry that this has you so thrown off course.
Now I wonder if I would have more accurately you in advance of our deadline to tell about it but until then I'm not so thought about it. He was quite similar to me has left it oddly afterwards very well. I found him very insightful and perhaps I was just relieved that the trisomy 18 in our case for an "ordinary accident" looked like .. This appointment was with us too at the same time, the first explanation of this diagnosis.
I too have been told that the risk is getting in further pregnancies again a bad diagnosis increased statistically. I was now in the same "risk group" as a 35-year-old. This risk would increase no longer with me but also from 35th So overall the probability is still rather low. Frankly, I could then no doubt why not shock so I at the statistics do not give much more. Actually I'm more like a Zahlen-/Logikmensch, but after I actually a risk of less than 0.6% or so with a sick child had to be pregnant and it was won, I'll give nothing more on it.
And as you say Amina, I also think, with each pregnancy the risks are there, because if you get a forecast of 0.6% or 1% ...
Sch ..... We at the statistics!
* I press thee! *

[Snow Crystal]

Believe any statistics that you have not falsified yourself .... it means but always

So just head high and believe firmly that you hold in the near future a merry little healthy Schnuffelchen in your arms. I push you in any case, both thumbs and wish you the very best!